26 Apr 2021 - Love thy self day 5

 I reached out to Deaconess Tammie cos I am really quite lost. The suggestion she gave was really interesting but it opened up a perspective. She said, I could write something like “I like myself for being aware of my own self hatred”. 


This means there’s a lot of other things I can actually like myself about. Eg 


1. I like myself for having the perseverance to build my muscles up after surgery even though it is tedious. 

2. I like myself for obeying the Holy Spirit and going for a run when promoted. 

3. I like myself for being patient about not reaching my desired weight yet. 

4. I like myself for being able to think and analyse fast. 

5. I like myself for having good skin even at this age. 

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